You can kiss my neck or wrap your hands around it, either one is cool.
Know when to stop, know when to call the relationship off. If it has been causing you to cry to sleep almost every night or makes you lose your trust in yourself and almost everyone or makes you question why your smiles don’t look as bright as they have been before and why they don’t last long, call it off. Yes, there are tough times but when it’s too much, it’s time to let it go. I know it’s hard, especially if you have fought for it all your life or you are deeply in love with the person. However, you did not commit to feel more alone than when you are single. You commit because you want to belong to someone, you want to share your life and your whole being with him. You commit because you want to be with him every step of the way, because you want to experience all the inevitable and arguments and pain and happiness with him. You want to experience how it feels like to actually be selfless.
But my dear, you don’t have to push yourself too hard. You are not bound to be in a relationship where it’s always you who tries and does everything to make it work out, to make it last. Yes, you value the relationship and most of all the person you are committed to but you have to learn how to value yourself too. You should stop letting him hurt you. You should stop waiting for the time when he would be able to commit wholeheartedly to you or when he would be able to make you his number one priority. You should stop expecting that he is going to change for you because if he wants to do that, he would’ve done it already. Stop pursuing him. You are the girl, you are the one who should be pursued. Stop believing his lame excuses and accepting his lies as facts because you know the real situation, you know the truth. Stop being blind to all his deficiencies and shortcomings and all the things he didn’t do even if he is responsible for them. Stop accepting the love you think you deserve. Because honestly, you deserve so much more. You deserve someone who would make you happy, who would make you want to live, who would fight for you the way you fight for him. You deserve the love who doesn’t make you sad and depressed and feel alone everyday. You don’t deserve a jerk, you deserve a man who is responsible, who can make you his priority, who can love you unconditionally. You deserve a lot more than what your present is giving you. You are entitled to it.
Don’t settle for less, sweetie. Love yourself more."